Even though we didn't make it to the zoo that day, could sense that the gal was happy that Daddy and Mummy was taking time out from work to spend the day with her. I asked her if she liked it that we brought her out today instead of us going to work and she told me GOOD with the thumbs up sign! We hope that by spending quality time with her, she'll feel less threaten by the baby's arrival.
Alot of people ask me if I have talked or prepared her for the new baby, hmm.. actually I personally don't like to put too much focus and emphasis on no. 2's arrival. I have on a few occasions told her about Di Di in my tummy and how I she can help me out with Di Di as well as read books about babies, but I don't talk about Di Di to her everyday as I find that "OUR" time together should be about US- me and her and not about Di Di. And I hope that doesn't change when he arrives - that whatever time I have with her will be about her not her brother. I also hope that when he comes out everyone else around will not keep asking her about her brother and talk to her about her brother, but talk to her and play with her as per normal. If not she'll definately feel as if the whole world revovles round Di Di!
Hazel being buried under the balls by her Daddy |
She looks sooo comfy & relax |
Happily posed with me when I requested for a picture |
Feasting on her imaginery food |
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